Starting Nursery Soon? Here’s How to Make It Smooth & Stress-Free

Starting nursery is an exciting milestone for both children and parents, but it can also feel a little daunting. At Rosedene Nurseries, we understand that every child is unique, and a smooth transition starts with a little preparation. Here are our top 10 tips to help your little one settle in confidently and happily.

1. Start the Conversation Early

Talk to your child about nursery in a positive, upbeat way. Mention the fun activities they’ll do, the friends they’ll make, and the caring early years educators who will be there to support them. The more familiar and exciting the idea feels, the easier the transition will be.

2. Encourage Independence

Simple everyday skills can make a big difference in your child’s confidence. Encourage them to practice putting on shoes, feeding themselves, using the toilet, washing their hands, and tidying up after play. These little steps help them feel capable and proud.

3. Visit the Nursery Together

If possible, arrange a visit to the nursery before their first day. Walk around the rooms, point out toys and play areas, and introduce them to the environment. Familiarity with the space can reduce first-day nerves and make the nursery feel welcoming.

4. Create a Goodbye Routine

A short, consistent goodbye routine can help your child feel safe and reassured. A hug, a kiss, or a special wave followed by a confident farewell shows your child that you trust the nursery staff, making it easier for them to settle.

5. What to Bring to Nursery

Packing the right items can make your child’s day more comfortable and stress-free. Essentials include:

• A labelled water bottle

• Spare clothes and underwear

• Weather-appropriate items like suncream, hats, coats, wellies, and gloves

• Nappies, nappy cream or wipes if needed

Having everything ready and labelled reduces anxiety for both children and parents.

 

6. Talk About Emotions

Starting nursery can be an emotional experience. Encourage your child to express how they feel and reassure them that it’s normal to feel nervous, excited, or even a little sad. Talking openly helps them process emotions and develop confidence.

7. Read Books About Nursery

Children love stories, and reading books about starting nursery is a great way to introduce the concept in a fun, engaging way. It can help them understand routines, meet new characters, and see the exciting adventures ahead. A great book to read is ‘Owl babies’ by Martin Waddel, a comforting read that helps children understand and cope with temporary separations from a parent/carer.

8. Practice Routines at Home

Nursery routines may be different from home, so practicing them in advance can help. Encourage regular wake-up times, snack routines, and tidying up toys after play. Familiarity with a routine helps children feel secure and prepared.

9. Stay Positive and Calm

Children pick up on their parents’ emotions, so staying calm and positive can make a huge difference. Talk enthusiastically about nursery, show excitement for their day, and reassure them that they’ll be safe and happy. Your confidence helps them feel confident too.

10. Make Use of Our Parent Pack

Our Rosedene Nurseries Parent Pack is designed to guide you through the transition. It includes everything you need to prepare your child, from practical tips to advice on settling in. Chat to your nursery manager for personalised support and make the most of the resources available.

Starting nursery is a big step, but with a little preparation, it can be an exciting and happy experience for your child. At Rosedene Nurseries, we’re here to support every child and every family, making sure the start of their nursery journey is smooth, confident, and fun.